Thanks for yet another engaging, thought-provoking post. I love it that I can absolutely hear your voice as I read your very-Whitney words. Like a podcast but somehow better.

Your disappointment reminds me of a cross-over show we did with Vivian of CLIPpodcast about one of our all-time favourite children's books: “Tudley Didn't Know”. The story of a turtle who could do absolutely anything, simply because he hadn't realized he couldn't.

Mark & I (who have, I guess, been limited almost exclusively by our confidence and imaginations) found the book fabulously inspiring. I wished every child on earth could have the book read to them every single night.

Vivian's educator panel, as I recall, expressed concern that students not get their hopes up — that they take into account their limitations. (I may be mis-remembering this, I'll put links to the shows below).

I recall feeling very bummed about this — and a little foolish to be so excited at the great power I thought the story held.

There are long histories and good reasons behind both viewpoints, I imagine. Interesting nonetheless.

I sometimes feel the same way about my own breast cancer journey. Like maybe denial and idealism are one and the same. But then I realize how I'd feel if I chose the other option and I know I'm right where I need to be.

Thanks again for making me think

Here are the links:
Tudley on JOMB
Tudley on CLIP
Derek K. Miller's take on Staying Positive (see comments)