8 Tips for Driving In The Snow

As a native Upstate New York resident, I learned how to drive in the snow almost as soon as I learned how to drive.  It wasn’t an optional experience.  I learned how to drive in the snow and ice, whether I was driving standard or automatic transmissions, and before they had ABS on every car.    This week, with the snowstorm here on the East Coast, I not only got to drag out all my snow driving skills, but had the opportunity to teach them also to my kids.  Since this seems to be a challenge area for many people, here’s my best advice.

1.  If you have been putting off buying new tires, consider doing it sooner than later.  Driving on snow and ice involves having decent traction, and the better treads you have, the better.  When I grew up, most people even had a special set of “Snow Tires” they put on the car every fall.  While this isn’t as important in Philadelphia or Washington DC as it is in Buffalo or Vermont, it’s also further evidence that having tires with low treads ups your chances for an accident substantially when driving in adverse conditions.

2. Speed is not your friend.   In fact, when driving in snowy and icy conditions, going slowly and leaving decent distance between your car and the one in front of you is critical. I can’t tell you how many people I saw the other day, even in cars meant for snow, like 4WD SUV’s, that were still getting into trouble for going too fast or simply riding up on the bumper of other vehicles, assuming their car was invincible.  These are the folks spending the next few days in a rental, as their car gets fixed at the collision shop.

3.  Hills, especially downhill slopes, will require you to brake early, consistently and be prepared to swerve on the shoulder if necessary.  Even following all these rules, I was travelling at a cautious speed down a hill near home, and started to brake.  Unfortunately, the road under the snow was icy, and my tires weren’t gripping, causing me to make a turn to a small road to the right to avoid skating into the intersection.  Making sure you have an exit strategy by staying in the slow lane could save you time, money and injury.  It saved me.

4.  Intersections are universally icy, especially if temperatures are below freezing, but get markedly worse when the temperature is lower than 25 degrees.  Between melting snow and ice off of cars, and the cars sitting there for more than a few moments, snow at intersections has a tendency to melt, freeze, remelt and refreeze, making it difficult to pull out of a secondary road onto a main road without risking slipping and sliding like a hockey player.  Making sure you give all cars adequate warning, using turn signals, and taking it slow rather than trying to accelerate too quickly to get into a spot on the main road is the best way to handle it.  You may feel like a Grandma driving this way, but you’ll stay safe.

5. Practice.  On weekends, corporate and school parking lots are great for this- as well as smaller neighborhood type roads.  Practice driving, stopping suddenly, steering out of a slide, and getting used to the feel of the “chatter” of ABS brakes while driving in the snow.  By getting used to the feel of driving and sliding, you will take the fear out of it, and then avoid panicking if you have a problem driving during an actual snowstorm.  (We used to actually try to slide and do “donuts” in parking lots, but ABS has taken the fun out of this winter sport for kids in the north.)

6. If your car has problems going up hills in good weather, think about NOT driving in the snow at all.  Unless its absolutely necessary, if your car doesn’t handle hills and slopes without groaning in good weather, snow will only make the problem worse.  I can’t tell you how many little cars, like my son’s Prius, were stuck on the side of the road, unable to go up hill or down in the rapidly falling snow.  It was made worse by these cars then stopping traffic, and aggravating the problem for other little cars trying to get through.    Sometimes it’s better to just not go out, than go out and get stuck, or worse, have a crash.

7.  If you know it might snow, pack a few essentials in your car.  Make sure you have a snow brush and ice scraper.  Have extra windshield wiper fluid in your car.  Consider a can of windshield de-icer for your emergency kit.  Have a blanket, and keep your cell phone charged and/or have a back up battery for your phone in the car.  I also often have

8.  Snow Gear to Consider Keeping in the car:  If you have to park outside, consider a snow and ice windshield cover.  For $6.99, this baby can save you some serious time and heartache.  There are little traction mats like these which can help get you or someone stuck out of trouble in no time flat.  (Some people swear kitty litter works as well, but I’d hate to have to clean that up later on.)  For deep snow, I also like putting the snow broom in the car- it deals with deep snow in just a few seconds.  And of course, having reusable or even disposable emergency heat packs are fantastic, and can even help warm up your gloves or any part of you that might need it.  An extra pair of gloves, to keep you warm after you’ve de-iced your windshield wipers, will always be a great idea.

Even if you think you know how to drive in the snow, others who don’t will cause you problems.  A typically 20 minute drive took me 3 and a half hours on Tuesday, mostly because other drivers were having problems related to not knowing how to drive in the snow, as well as everyone trying to “beat” the snow by leaving all at once, making it difficult for both plows and emergency vehicles to get through.

Don’t be part of the problem- stay safe, and practice handling the snow and ice now that we have it, and help teens practice as well.  A little bit of practice goes a long way, and don’t forget to get some in before the winter leaves for good.  Otherwise, we’re all going to have this same problem the next time it snows, next week or next year.

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Three Words for 2014

Chris Brogan started a tradition a number of years ago, to find three words to use to focus goals for the New Year.  Many friends have adopted this practice as well, as it’s a great exercise to find out what’s really important to you, at least at this point in time.  Last year, I set out three mission statements instead of three words, and they were:

1. I will not take on any more volunteer projects without dropping one that I already have (one for one switch)

2. I will do a SWOT (strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats) analysis- written down and saved to Evernote- before accepting new projects.

3. I will do a list of things to be accomplished, at least once a week, and hold myself accountable for getting them done, one by one.  No more leaving things on the back burner indefinitely.

Looking back on things, I did fairly well on these goals.  I also set out to try at least one new thing a month, which included making cheese, making my own mustard and butter (yeah, it was a little like Amish Fantasy Camp around here for a bit…), trying french press coffee, yoga, ordering new things at restaurants, going new places.  Looking back on 2013, what I think I learned most is that change isn’t always comfortable, but it’s inevitable and necessary.

By experimenting, we try something outside our comfort zone and end up figuring out what we really do like, or at least appreciate things that aren’t the best a bit more in the process.   I actually had a couple of epic culinary fails this year, and while that hasn’t happened in a very long time, I learned a lot in the process.  (Let’s just say my mustard could go head to head with straight wasabi, and let’s not really discuss the multiple bean chili-soup incident ever again- that pot will never be the same.)

For this year’s three word/mission statement exercise, I’ve been mulling over choices for a few weeks.  This is what I’ve come up with:

1. Run My Own Race, or Pacing:  I can get really competitive sometimes.  But comparing myself to others and holding myself up as either more or less isn’t really all that useful.  I need to be able to set my goals and achieve them steadily, day to day, without being so worried about the competition, but instead about being consistent and persistent on my own path.

2.  Building:  It’s time to start building and sharing resources, new habits, relationships, and projects.  It’s time to get my hands dirty and make things happen.  After a year that was defined by change, including my first child going off to college, it’s now time to build more for the future.

3. Exploring: Like last year, I’d like to continue exploring new options, and adding them into the building part of my goals.  Exploring and experimenting are closely related, but I’d like the exploration to feed into building more directly.  I like the sense of fearlessness that exploration incorporates, and I want to continue to have the guts to go “all in” on projects that are worth it, even if they don’t all work out.  In the end, I can say I don’t have any regrets, because I did my best and didn’t hold back.

I think I can live with that.

What are your goals for the next year?  Whether they are words, or sentences, or even feelings, taking a moment to write them down is powerful, and helps me, at least, to be accountable.  Being accountable to yourself for your hopes and dreams is probably the most important thing of all.  Otherwise, you might just find you are selling yourself short or let yourself off the hook, and that’s  one way to make sure that you fail to move forward to where you really want to go.

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48 Hours With Google Glass

Photo on 12-16-13 at 5.10 PM #2I got an invitation late last week to become a Google Glass Explorer.  Google Glass is probably best described as a pair of “glasses” you can wear with a video display and hands-free computer functionality.  It’s still in Beta, and you have to receive an invitation in order to be able to purchase one of these headsets, for the steep price of $1500.  The invitation itself reads a bit like a Mafia offer- You have seven days from the receipt of the email to make a purchase, and if you decide not to, they also want to know why.  Since it is not a trivial amount of money, the prospect was a bit daunting, so I turned to friends and people on Cinch to see what others thought.

People who are part of the Explorers program generally say that if you are a technophile or a developer, Glass is definitely worth it.  If you are looking for a regular consumer product, helping Google work out the bugs while paying handsomely for the privilege may not be what you have in mind, was the general consensus.

I decided to bite the bullet, thinking that having an early adopter advantage on this technology was worth it, and hoping it would turn out to be more than Siri with Video.

So far, Glass is intriguing in ways I’m only starting to understand.  It feels like a paradigm shift.  Unlike the other wearables like the Pebble Watch or the Galaxy gear, you really can use Google Glass while walking around with your hands in your pocket.  A simple tilt up of your head turns glass on, and voice commands or a simple swipe on the template can  allow you to take photos or videos and share them out to friends or on social networks, make a video call, and with Glass apps, even get cooking directions or YouTube videos streamed to you.

Glass does require a robust internet connection beyond just bluetooth to work best.  I have iOS devices, so additional support is supposed to be coming this week to make the connectivity and customization of Glass even better, but it’s been pretty easy so far.  When walking around University City in Philadelphia yesterday, I took a number of pictures and shared them out and found out I accidentally made a video call or two while showing someone else how to use them- but the feedback from the inadvertent callers was that the video was crystal clear.  The pictures didn’t upload to my networks until I reached home, since connecting to additional networks requires taking a picture of QR code through Glass generated by the MyGlass website or app, and I don’t yet have that for my iphone.

Glass itself is easy and comfortable to wear.  It took a day or so to adjust to seeing the screen with and without my normal prescription eyeglasses, and I understand it will be possible in the next year to get prescription lens support, which will be great for those of us who are *cough* north of forty.  The battery life is pretty good and lasted the better part of the day, but I could see running the battery down quickly if you were shooting a lot of video.

Walking around “in the wild” with Glass, only one person asked me specifically if I was wearing Google Glass, and a fun conversation started with customers at our lunch stop.   I did get a bunch of curious looks and second glances, but it wasn’t too weird.  My kid did, however, forbid me from wearing them into the music shop for his Guitar lesson, so I guess that says something as well.

I’m intrigued by Glass and the things that it may be able to do.  Clearly, Point of View cameras like Gopro are much better suited for outdoor sports than Glass.  But if you ever wanted to scout a location for a business or video, view real estate when a spouse was out looking at homes miles away, take kids on a virtual field trip or see how they were solving a problem, Glass puts you in that other person’s shoes quite effectively.  It might be great for secret shoppers, or seeing how users really interact with your website beyond just the clicks.   Marketers and product testers might love it, to find out how consumers are really experiencing their products or stores, just by watching the video from the person’s POV.

From a legal perspective, there’s been talk how something like Glass would give a more accurate representation of an Officer’s encounter with a suspect, or view a building’s layout before going in during a dangerous situation.  Or what would happen if you could, as an EMT, get immediate access to a patient’s electronic medical record, or be coached through CPR or emergency procedures if you are a civilian in touch with 911.  However, all of these intriguing possibilities depend on really having easy and continuous dependable access to broadband capability wherever you are, without having to sign into new networks, which is not the case right now.

Glass makes the concept of Augmented Reality more real than ever before.  I always thought AR and seeing embedded information about your neighborhood through your phone was intriguing, but I don’t often want to hold up my phone at arm’s length, worrying about the lighting, in the middle of a busy street corner.  With Glass, that information is simply streamed to the screen above your right eye.  Apps that automatically can translate signs from one language to another are available, bringing up loads of possibilities not only with travel, but for people working in the field- NGO’s, researchers, the military.

While there are options to overlap maps on the screen while you’re running or skiing, I can’t recommend using Glass while driving- it is very distracting.  If you are a passenger- no problem- but if you are a driver- not a good option, and there’s no good reason to have it on while driving.

Glass is the first piece of tech since the iPad/iPhone that feels like it has the potential to change the paradigm.  The iPad gave us mobile screens and computing we could carry everywhere and also share with others, making computers both more social and portable than they were with laptops.  Glass takes you back to a private world that only you see, but one that you can also share quickly through social networks – G+, Twitter, Facebook and Path.  I think Glass may be the lever that tips me towards using Google Plus more, because its integration is so simple.

I’m eager to continue exploring the possibilities Glass holds, and sharing that with you.

What do you think of Glass?  What would you like to explore?  What do you think of its potential?

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Comcast Service Problems

XFINITY Speed TestI’ve been with Comcast for almost 15 years at this point, from back in the day when we still had dial up service.  I’ve been through good time and bad times, and right now, we’re having another one of those bad times.

About six years ago, Comcast started using Twitter for customer support.  I started using Twitter instead of customer support by phone, because it was always faster and more reliable.  Lately, I’ve reverted to using phone based customer support for problems, and it’s been fine.  While I expect occasional problems, the service has been largely terrific.  Until this past week.

Starting on December 3rd, I began to notice significantly slower internet speeds.  Our bill is paid up, and everything else seemed fine, so I called, anticipating a regional outage.  I was assured everything was fine and they sent out a very nice technician who tested my system and tightened some connections, which seemed to improve the service a bit.  Then it went back downhill, prompting a second call and a second service visit from a more advanced technician, who changed out some of the filters at the main modem.

During this process I became aware of two sites you should know about.  The first is Downdetector.com that will tell you where there’s Comcast problems across the country.  The second is how to test the speed of your service through Comcast’s Speed test site.

The technician who came out said initially that we should test speed to and from the DC server, while the New Castle DE server is much closer to our home.  I am now testing speeds from both servers.  When service is working well, and we can effectively watch video streamed over the net, we’re getting 40+ mbps download speed.  However, a good portion of the time, I’m getting 20 mbps or less.  Despite checking out everything locally, I’m forced to conclude this is really not a local equipment problem, but Comcast is either throttling internet speeds everywhere or is simply not providing the service I’m paying for, and is hoping I don’t notice too often.  Either way, the problem is getting untenable.

A brief look at Comcast service forums shows me this problem is far from unique.  It’s happening here and in other pars of the Country as well.  So the question that remains is whether or not Comcast is REALLY providing the service it promises, or is it intentionally dropping service speeds and hoping it’s at times no one will notice.

If you are having similar problems, check your local speeds and report them here.  Let’s try to document this problem and figure out what the underlying problem is and how to get Comcast to deliver the service that they promise.



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STEM, Girls and The Beastie Boys

UPDATE: Goldiblox has written an open letter and taken the video down.  I’m actually sort of sorry about that, because it was a STEM great video, and even more, has started a real and serious conversation about girls and science, engineering and math. The replaced video, embedded below, shows the same device without the girlpowered lyrics.

So the latest viral Youtube Video features a Rube Goldberg Device and song lyrics sung to the tune of the Beastie Boys Song “Girls” (see Below).  The original lyrics to “Girls”, includes such gems as :

“Girls, to do the dishes,
Girls, to clean up my room,
Girls, to do the laundry,
Girls, and in the bathroom,
Girls, that’s all I really want is girls.”

which I think we can all agree was sexist in its initial incarnation. Goldiblox, the maker of engineering toys (actually, a bit more like Tinker Toys meets Legos in Lady-friendly colors) changed the instrumentation to sound like a kid’s piano and changed the lyrics to include:

“Girls, to build a spaceship
Girls, to code a new app
To grow up knowing
That they can engineer that
Girls, that’s all we really need is girls”

As a result, there’s a legal dustup brewing, with Goldiblox, the video creator and the maker of engineering toys geared towards girls, asking the Court to view their use of the song as falling within the parody and Fair Use exemption, and the Beastie Boys are not happy about any of this.  While this won’t end very well for anyone involved, with people choosing sides about positive messaging for women over sexist band lyrics and marketing based on authorized use of someone else’s intellectual property… the more interesting question to me is the actual toy that’s being promoted.

Goldiblox was developed as a startup by a Stanford Trained woman engineer.  Along with all the push for training more scientists and engineers in the Country, there’s been an equal push to see more women in those roles as well.  The idea of more girl friendly building toys isn’t new, Lego has been doing this for a while now. (In fact, their popularity was well above what was expected.) Goldiblox just takes this same idea to different projects geared around stories for the six year old set, with a set of pieces very much like Tinker Toys in pinks and purples, and other “girly” colors.  Ok, it worked for Legos, what about Goldiblox?
I think you need to see the reviews.  While there are some parents who think that STEM toys for girls are just the “bestest thing ever”, other reviews seem to say that the market is actually for girls much younger than six, and that the six and seven year olds find Goldiblox and the stories that come with it, horribly boring.  As one reviewer put it:

“The first assembly of spools, axles, washers, the band and the lever were fun, and the first project seemed satisfying enough. But she was bored by the second pass at putting the same parts together in different configurations, and never picked up the toy again for several weeks. I held off on this review until I felt she had a fair chance to play with it without the distraction of the birthday party. I opened up the Spinning Machine one day, put it together in a different configuration, and left it out with other toys and puzzles that she often plays with. She was interested enough to take it apart and reassemble it again that day, but that was the last time she has shown any interest in it on her own.

It’s not the surface issues here that we’re all getting so upset about- whether we’re pushing girls into STEM, or trying to co-opt them into it by “pinkwashing” the toy and making it more attractive by adding animals and girly colors.  It’s really that it’s a mediocre engineering toy that’s probably geared towards the wrong age group overall.  No amount of pink and kittens will get your over the problem that the stories are being seen as lame and uninteresting to the target market.

What we have to do, to get kids, boys and girls, more interested in STEM is to show them how really cool science, engineering and math are to everyone.  Let them design jewelry or action figures in AutoCAD and print it out on a 3D printer.  Let them build robots and play with LEGOs of every color, shape and size.  Let’s show kids how you apply the learning in the classroom to real life and real projects, including ones they design themselves.

I’d much rather see kids like Super Awesome Silvia and her Maker Show having a go at helping girls and kids in general try more maker and STEM projects.  Silvia has been doing her show for a long time with her dad and now is apparently working with Make magazine, which is great.    I would much rather see what Silvia is up to than just Goldiblox.

I am a mom of sons, but I was also the girl who learned to play around with low and hires graphics on the first Apple II in our school and built a digitizer for a science fair project back in the early 80’s.  I want women to feel empowered to pursue ANY career, and explore any option, whether that’s tech or fashion design- it doesn’t matter so much to me.  But we do need to show EVERY kid, regardless of their demographics, that STEM and when you involve the arts, STEAM, is fun, period.

You don’t need to make it pink or put flowers on it to make it happen.

It just needs to be engaging, and worth doing in the first place.  Most of all, we shouldn’t be patronizing kids of any age with very controlled and prescribed “kits” and brainwashing their parents into thinking its a great thing because its educational.  Let’s give our kids the most important message- that science is great- without trying to hide it like vegetables in their fruit juice.

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